Stop comparing yourself to other people!

Hey Y'all! 

So I'm sure I'm not the only person who is really bad at comparing themselves to other people... Am I right?! Like how slow I walk... I find myself being upset and even mad for how much slower I am then an "Average" person! Another example of this is being able to stand without wobbling... I sometimes can't do that! I have to lean on or hold onto something to keep my balance... an "average" person doesn't have to do that! Well unless of course they are two sheets to the wind thanks to a few drinks🤣🤣! I also CAN'T run... my "running" is an "average" persons version of brisk walking! I think of all this stuff I can't do that other people can do and it sometimes makes me so mad! But why?! I am special in my own way! Yes I can't do certain like everyone else.... But that doesn't make me any less of an AWESOME person! Just because someone has a different way they have to do something or they can't do something at all shouldn't make them feel bad about themselves! God made each one of us to be unique and each one of us has a special talent or purpose for our life! So I need to stop being so upset at myself for the things I can't do... and start LOVING the things that I can do! Some of those things I am lucky to be doing at all but thanks to the good Lord I am able to! So for anyone who is struggling with things they can't do and comparing themselves to everyone else... Stop that! Be YOU! No one should make you feel like you are less of a person or "different" because you can't do something or do it different then them! 

💕Hugs💕

   Kelley 

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